(Closed) Is anyone else just ready to have it over with?

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
324 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Me!! Me me me!!

And its still 2.5 month until our wedding…

There is just SO much to juggle… <.<

Post # 5
28 posts
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Hanahilly  Me too! We are date twins, so I can relate.  I’m so over it.  I’m over the millions of dress fittings.  I’m over the paying out the wazoo for last minute details.  I’m over not sleeping and not eating.  I’m ready to have the wedding, party, honeymoon and get back to NORMAL! 

Post # 6
872 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@hannahlily:  Wow….Did I somehow write this? 

I totally feel this way right now. 

FI’s family drama, my mom being in the hospital, I am doing all this planning by myself, I barely see my fiance’ anymore because he is working so much for this wedding….I am just done right now. 

Exhausted. Done. 

Wait…I have two months to go still? Damnit. 

Post # 7
4690 posts
Honey bee

I’m a year out, and yup. I’m dying to be done with all the planning. I haven’t had anything particularly awful happen yet, but I figure it’s because I’m still so far out.

Post # 8
38 posts
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m with you! I have one month to go and I can’t wait to get it over with. There hasn’t been any  drama but I am SICK Of people I barely know asking to see pictures of my dress and all kinds of questions about the wedding. I’m also tired of people making such a big deal about stupid stuff that doesn’t matter. Apparently I’m going to bridal hell because I’m not throwing a bouquet. I am so much more focused on marrying my man and starting our lives together.  Isn’t that the important part? 

Post # 9
20 posts

 Me!!  one month to go and a boat load of things to do.  Somehow my simple beach wedding turned out to be everything but simple.  I  just want to be married and have my weekends back  already! 

Post # 10
514 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@rizzlemethis:  Me too! I wanted a beach wedding with immediate family and now its like 80 people and is costing as much/more than a wedding back home. ugh!

Post # 11
2052 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

YES!  I get married MONDAY and am ready for the honeymoon.  So over it! LOL

Post # 12
296 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Sweet jeebies YES.  

Late September can’t come soon enough.  The guest list is giving me agita, I’m second guessing every purchase I’ve made (dress, shoes, rings, headpiece…).  I’m desperately resisting the urge to keep shopping and re-shopping.

I honestly wish I pushed harder to elope.  🙁

Post # 13
190 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@lilcafe:  I feel the exact same way about those exxact same things!


Yes, yes, yes I can not wait for all of this stress to go away.  I always said I couldn’t imagine spending so much on 1 day and yet it has happened.  I just want to be married to the love of my life and have life go back to normal……..looking forward to July 28th 🙂

Post # 14
8170 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Loubride:  we are not doing bouquete or garter toss and i don’t think it is a big deal not to do it.

it wasn’t done at the last 3 weddings i went to either.

Post # 15
7121 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@hannahlily:  YES! So many of my friends keep telling me I should enjoy this time and that it’s worth it. If I had to do it all over again I would have a small destination wedding. It can’t be worth be this stressed out and busy. I just want to relax and not  worry about a wedding anymore!

Post # 16
1154 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - Ontario, Canada

@lilcafe:  I am exactly the same!! I put it down to the fact that I have been planning this for 2 years so am over thiking things. Thankfully most of it is now done and I only have the small details to finalise but I am on high alert all the time as I just know that a drama bomb will drop at some point.

I am totally at the point now where I feel over it and I can’t be bothered with arranging anything else. It’s almost more of a chore than fun at this point. I just want the day to come so that we can get on with our (married) lives….


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