(Closed) Is anyone else just ready to have it over with?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I have 3.5 months until my wedding…there has been SO much drama and BS that I’m definitely ready to have the day be here!  I’ve contemplated eloping MANY times, but then my dad will bring up crying while he walks me down the aisle…how can I pass that up?!

Post # 18
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2999 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

ME!!!!! 3 days!

Post # 19
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1782 posts
Buzzing bee

ME! I’ve never looked forward to planning a wedding, and the closer it gets, the more anxious and scatter-brained I get. 38 days! *deep breaths*

Post # 20
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1782 posts
Buzzing bee

@ajillity81:  we’re not doing one either. we won’t even have a dance floor!

 

Post # 21
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80 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

YES!!! I too have thought about eloping, seriously. I have 3 months left so I am still seriously thinking about canceling this wedding and running away with my Fiance. The money alone is enough to make me walk away and take my deposits and fix up the house!

 

Post # 22
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347 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

HECK YES!!! Can’t wait to have my regular life back!

Post # 23
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747 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m with you!! So ready for the honeymoon!!

Post # 26
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128 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I have four days to go.. Guests (mostly family members) keep asking me about details of various aspects.  Really?  You’ll see everything in less than a week.  Be patient, put down the drink, and look around.  And stop telling me in detail how everything should be like your own wedding.

Other ridiculous things:

On Monday, I got an RSVP from someone that I didn’t want to invite, so I didn’t pester him to respond.. Deadline was May 4th.  So over two weeks had past before he had sent it in and he sees me every other day!  So after final counts, seating charts, and place cards were done, I had to scramble everything to fit two more people.  Luckily my caterer didn’t mind the two extra plates..  Hopefully he doesn’t think about bringing in his kids.

The past Saturday?  FMIL didn’t know I was in the house and she started arguing with Fiance about our future house.  She even said “you can still back out of this wedding too!”.  FI, being snarky, asked “Hey ekizuna, what do you think about that?”  FMIL shut up quickly, but I guess they fought even more the next day.

 

Blargh.  I should have eloped.

Post # 27
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550 posts
Busy bee

I’m so over it and I’ve got over a year to go! I just want everything to be planned already. Doesn’t help that my Fiance just keeps saying ‘We don’t have to decide now, we’ve got lots of time.’ Ack!

Post # 28
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198 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

A few days ago, I was also sick and tired of all the planning… BUT, a few days after the wedding you will miss all that planning. Just enjoy those last days and everything will be fine :)! Good luck and have a great wedding!

 

 

 

Post # 29
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I was like thaclothe week before the wedding and now that it’s done I feel a little lost without all the to do lists and projects to work on. I didn’t mind the planning and working on all the projects but boy did I grow tired of it last week. Mostly I got tired of hearing myself talk of nothing but the wedding (self-awareness is awesome lol). We plan to honeymoon later so this week has just been about pics and basking in the wonderfulness of having the most amazing man as my husband 🙂

Post # 30
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198 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@FuturePK:  same here!

Post # 31
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Yes!! I only got engaged a week ago but I’m already sick of wedding stuff…. I’m sick of how much it costs and how much there is to decide on, even though we’re having a small wedding it’s crazy how many things we still have to pick out and do. I’m just ready to be married to the man I love!

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