(Closed) Is anyone else not excited? (Mini rant)

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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786 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I am little bit as well. I’m also overwhelmed, I gained a lot of weight in the last year and I feel like my mom is like devastated that I’m going to be a fat bride which is very stressful for me, my FI dad passed away in october very suddenly and on top of it being horrible and sad, there is tons of family drama….i know i will be so happy on the day but right now Im a little blah, like you…

Post # 4
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58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

If money grew on trees I’d be more excited and able to enjoy this

Post # 5
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588 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@amy.finden:  Amen!

Right now I’m not able to sleep and I don’t know why. Only thing I can think of is stress.

Post # 8
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667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m lacking excitemment right now too. I still have over a year to the wedding so it will probably hit me at some point. I think part of it might be due to the fact that i’m not really doing anything right now either for the wedding. The church and reception hall have been booked as well as the caterer, who hapens to do all the linens as well including chair cover nd sashes. I wasn’t going to go dress shopping for a few months still so I’m at a lull. Oh well I’m sure at some point the excitement bug will hit again.

Post # 9
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665 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@lilgrizzlygirl:  I know how stressful it can be. SO and I changed our entire wedding plans because of different stress factors and are now eloping. I’m guessing the day of you will be way more excited that it’s actually happening than you currently are.

ETA: Also I was accused by many people of not showing enough excitement about my upcoming nuptials ugh people.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

You may be overwhelmed, and this is overshadowing your excitement.

I think when there are a lot of challenges in the process it can kinda take the shine off it? IYKWIM??

I am sure, however, that on the day you will be beside yourself kinda excited!

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