(Closed) Is anyone else scared to get pregnant post wedding?

posted 11 years ago in TTC
Post # 61
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - DD born 2015 DS born 2017

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Mrs. Louboutin:  I felt sick at the idea of birth my entire life and would have vomited/fainted watching a birthing video until I hit 24 y.o. and suddenly it seemed not only possible but magical. I don’t have experience yet but I’ve seen many videos and they make me cry from happiness and wishing it was me haha!! 

I think education helped me a lot. For example, learning that the baby’s head is soft to help push through, that the pain comes and goes in waves giving you a break between contractions (I though labour was solid, unrelenting agony for 9+ hours!!!!), that you can practise stretching your vagina during late pregnancy to help prevent tears, learning that the muscles do the work for you in a natural birth so there are some women who barely need to push at all. Do some research and it might elate some fears you have!!

Post # 64
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2013

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Mrs. Louboutin:  If you’re willing, can you explain how you went from your original post to being a mom to two adorable little ones? What was your journey like between being terrified and finally deciding to go for it?

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