(Closed) Is anyone getting kind of sick of planning their wedding?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Are you getting sick of wedding planning?
    YES- i wish it could just plan itself! : (98 votes)
    77 %
    NO- i love being obsessed with wedding stuff! : (30 votes)
    23 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2699 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    i am also sick of it but only because I feel I’m the only one interested in it. I’m full of ideas but they are constantly met with “we don’t need to decide that yet”. It’s like a big smack in the face.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1303 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Me! Me! Me!  I’m ready to kick this ish to the curb and go honeymoon.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1697 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    UGH! I go through this every 2 weeks. I am fully focused on wedding stuff 24/7 and then I need to take a break for a week and no do so much. These details kill me because I HAVE TO GET IT done! I am so Type A!

    Post # 6
    Member
    690 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I am soooo done with it. And my fiance is of no help!! I hate planning stuff like this!

    Post # 8
    Member
    2825 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I’m sick of it!  But I’m 82 days away (yes I count!), I’m ready to just have everything done but that seems like it will never happen.  I’m ready for it to just happen already!!

    Post # 9
    Member
    2965 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @ticatica:  I feel the same way. And Im tired of the obsession over it. But I cant help myself! I just saw two venues this past Sat. I know Im going to go with one. Both are all inclusive so this is a huge decision because its actually the biggest decision. Everything else will be taken care of. I just have to meet with them to pick what I like. Im also having an issue with the guest list. Thats the most biggest issue Im obssessing over. I have 70 guests I want to invite but can only have 50 or both venues will charge extra if I have more than 50. Ive decided to hide the darn guest list till about 4 mons away from the wedding date or else I will drive myself mad!!!!!!!!!

    Post # 10
    Member
    2699 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @mtnhoney:  

    I wish I’d seen this before I wrote my own vent!

    Post # 11
    Member
    1327 posts
    Bumble bee

    I don’t mind planning, I just really am not looking forward to “dressing up” the day of. I am a bit of a tom-boy so getting my hair done and makeup and all that is just stressful for me.

    Post # 12
    Member
    2699 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @lindseyl06:  

    You know what…you have to make these decisions yourself in advance. get an idea of what you want and when you get closer to the time…just tell people what your ideas are. I totally get your frustration!

    Post # 13
    Member
    59 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    Yes! My wedding is 3 weeks away(yay!) But I’m sooo over it. I just want to say I do and party with everyone coming into town. I’ve put so much effort and time into it, and now I’m just burned out. I have projects to do, and I can’t find the motivation. I know when it finally gets here I’ll be excited

    Post # 14
    Member
    2247 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I am sooo over this wedding right now.  I go through phases, as I’ve noticed on here before, but right now is one of those “eff it” moments.  I need to vent, and I’m glad you posted this thread!  I am not happy to hear that so many people are as frustrated as I am, but I am happy that I’m not crazy and all alone in this.

    Things contributing to me wanting to throw in the proverbial towel:

    • Money.  That is THE number one issue making this whole thing miserable.  Everyone who was supposed to help contribute isn’t going to.  Fiance and I just bought a house that needs EVERYTHING done to it before we can move in, so I’d rather prioritize that over wedding expenses.
    • Anxiety over the wedding day.  I am so scared about walking down the aisle and standing in front of everyone that I keep getting stomach aches.
    • Guest list.  It’s amazing how people assume they’ll be invited to your wedding!  I’ve got invited guests inviting people that AREN’T invited.  It’s just crazy. 
    • Destination Wedding issues.  We’re having a semi-DW.  Everybody has left it up to me to find their accomodations for them… as if I didn’t already have enough on my damn plate!  Geez!

    Post # 15
    Member
    1061 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    The last month or so leading up to our wedding, I was a disaster.  I just wanted it over with.  I cut a few DIY projects to lessen the load and just tried to be as organized as I could.

    In the end, all of our hardwork paid off and it was a fantastic (relatively) drama free day of happiness.

    The best advice I can give is to focus on the thought of the marriage and not just the wedding.  That got me through some rough times.

    Post # 16
    Member
    399 posts
    Helper bee

    I felt the same way! I didn’t do anything wedding-related in late november through till yesterday 🙂 I didn’t even really talk about it that much either! It was easy, because of the holidays. but now I am back in full-swing and I feel invigorated and excited again!

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