(Closed) Is anyone not sending STDs?

posted 6 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
7609 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I didn’t!  And you know what?  We had NO DECLINES – AT ALL.  Ok, well we had two from elderly men due to health but their wives still RSVP’d yes.

Post # 4
418 posts
Helper bee

I’d actually never seen save the dates until a few wedding in the past 5 years. Before that, it was always the invitation only. And, it never seemed to be much of an issue.

Post # 5
46 posts

I had actually never heard of them until recently lol.  We decided to include ours with the invitations instead of sending them out beforehand.  Ours are just business card magnets with our monogram and the date on them.  We figure they can stick it on the fridge and they’ll know what it is without us having to add our picture and stuff on it 🙂

Post # 7
9483 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I didn’t.  I’m sending my invites out by the end of the month since I didn’t.  

Post # 8
515 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I didn’t send any out. Most of my guests will be local and don’t need extra time to make travel arrangements. For the people who need to travel from another state or country, we told them the date and place months ago so they could start making financial and travel plans. Some of them have already told us they can’t come and the rest have had enough lead time to make their plans. My thinking is that the only people who need save the dates are the ones who have to put a lot of planning into being able to attend. Anybody who is local and can sleep at their own house and drive their in their own car doesn’t really need much advance notice.

Post # 9
149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

@oneovakind:  We didn’t. With the use of internet everyone knew we were looking at the first week of September this yr before we knew the exact date anyway and just sent out invites. Only a couple of declines from ppl who had their hols booked before our wedding was.

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