MemberSo my countdown today says 186 days until the big day! While I am very excited for the actual day, I am starting to worry that I won’t be able to pull it off! I have so many things to do! AND I don’t feel very organized! Agh!
MemberI have been feeling like this lately!!! I just feel like the whole day is going to fall apart for some reason. Lately I have been super frustrated with our caterer, I have been worrying that the photos won’t turn out, and that no one will have fun, especially me!!!
I am just taking a mini-break from the wedding planning right now. Our honeymoon planning is actually way worse, becuase we are going to Europe for one month, and we are trying to book all the accomodations ourselves. Yikes!
Good luck!
MemberMy worry is that things won’t be setup the way I want it to be. Ah, alas the worries of a bride.
lrwedd–make a list of what has been done, and what still needs to be done. Next to the items on what still needs to be done write a deadline for yourself to have it finished by x amount of days. Hope that helps to organize things a little.
Member@msiphone: I did that for my bridesmaids dresses and it worked out great! I guess I just need to sit down and do it!
I think the “countdown” just started freakin’ me out a bit, I guess I felt like I had SO much time and now I feel like it’s just starting to fly by.
MemberMy date twin! I have times when i worry but I try to stay a month ahead of things im not so orginized but i do have things written down and im on the knot so that helps with that months to do list i try to finish whatevers on the list by the middle of the month so i wont have to stress all month long.
But I have been having dreams that the wedding day is already here and i have nothing ready so that kinda freaks me out. : /
Member@sep_queen: I have those same dreams! My Fiance had a dream the other night that they were constructing a building on the driving range where we are supposed to get married. I guess we are both stressing out a bit that things won’t go as planned!
MemberI cannot look at the countdown thing! I’m super excited to be getting married, but that countdown stresses me out!
MemberI am in the same boat, I feel like I can’t get anything done. Not only are we planning our wedding we are also building house and making all the decisions that go with that, and we are selling my house which needs a lot of work before it goes on the market. So between the wedding plans the house and the renos I think I am on overload.
Maybe I need to make a list.
MemberI’m not really worried about everything not getting done… I’m mostly worried that my decorations will suck. Like, I’ll think they’re all cute when I’m getting them ready and when they’re all in the venue it will look like a 10 year old’s birthday party.
Also we’re doing ipod and I’m worried the system will go down or it won’t work right or no one will like the music, etc.
MemberYep totaly with you on this and I am at 102 days. I had to take the count down off my cell cause it was freaking me out and I belive contributing to the bad wedding dreams! I did sit down and map out the things I have left to do ( oh man there are a ton) and when they needed to be done by. Now if only I can get it all done on time!
MemberCountdowns are scary, I suggest focusing on lists instead. It feels so good to mark DONE next something.
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Member241 for me and I’m already freaking out. 8 months…. holy geez… I have 8 months of being a “single” girl left. It’s a little scary, to be completely honest. I can’t belive how fast time is goingl. I’ve been engaged 9 months already and I feel like I have NOTHING done. I dont even have all the big pieces yet. I’m still missing a DJ, an officiant, a cake, rentals, etc. Ugh.
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