Post # 1
Anybody waiting having a harder time because of the season change?
I was doing just fine and was proud that I wasn’t obsessing for the last month or so. Then fall hit, and as soon as I walk outside into this crisp and lovely weather, my waiting senses start to tingle! Maybe it’s because I love fall, or maybe it’s because I’m waiting til November…
Post # 3
I think it’s probably because you’re waiting til November. I haven’t had any change in my waiting-mood.
I have been a lot happier, though, because I loooove Fall. The weather has been so nice.
Post # 4
I am actually more calm because i know it’s coming before December. I think that it will happen in October actually becasue we are planning an October 2013 wedding and SO knows we need a year to plan.
I know that some find the waiting harder once they know SO has the ring and once they know it’s coming soon. But i really really feel at peace now and just letting things happen as they suppose to.
I love fall so much !
Post # 5
@Lulume: I was actually going crazy in the summer because I thought it MIGHT happen during our plethora of special occations (meeting his family for the first time, his birthday, our friend’s wedding, my birthday & our 5 year anniversary) So now I just need to ride this BEAUTIFUL weather until thanksgiving-y time when It may be in the more forseeable future.
I hope I can just ride this nice weather out and be as cool as the weather.
Post # 6
I am only slightly upset because I realize that my wish to get engaged at the beginning of October is just not happening, and I will in all likelihood be getting engaged in November. He said I could be pleasantly surprised, but the fact that we could be moving out of state in the next month or so, and the fact that he has not even bought the damn ring that we chose yet, I know that I have some more waiting left to do, and it is frustrating. Thankfully these wil be my last weeks of anticipation/frustration/etc.
Post # 7
Yes because I’m waiting for winter and December. Even though I still secretly hope it will happen before that. At least I love this weather. Nothing better than warm coffee and tea instead of iced!