(Closed) Is Friday inconvenient?

posted 5 years ago in Venue
  • poll: Which day is best (as a guest) for a wedding
    Friday : (3 votes)
    6 %
    Saturday : (33 votes)
    69 %
    Equal : (12 votes)
    25 %
  • Post # 3
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    1066 posts
    Bumble bee

    I had a Friday for my first wedding and everyone loved having a day off to come. It was great! This time I am having a Sunday. Everyones coming to that too. I think you would be fine with both a Friday or Saturday. Friday is special to me, because I was born on a Friday,married on a Friday and all my kids were born on a friday. haha

    Post # 4
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    8695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I wouldnt mind and most people I know are able to get off work early so in my

    crowd a Friday wedding is (very) accepted.

    Post # 5
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    4275 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Either way (if it is close friends or family) we will make sure to be there.

    Post # 6
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    8331 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I’m not a fan of taking off of work to attend weddings. I have done it, but would probably only do so for a very close friend or family member.

    Post # 8
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    11351 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    As someone who chose the Friday evening of Memorial Day weekend for her own semi-destination wedding, and who has always had Sunday morning church commitments after attending other people’s Saturday night weddings, I definitely like the idea of Friday night weddings.

    ETA:  Because I can see benefits to both options, I voted for “equal” in your poll.

    Post # 9
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    1710 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

    I chose Friday because it was less costly to us and most of our guests would have to travel anyway for the wedding.

    Post # 10
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    47 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    We were originally planning to have a Friday wedding (because of a venue we originally decided on; changed now though) and when I brought it up to FI’s family and friends they FLIPPED out about how I’m asking people to take a day off work for MY wedding and that its rude to ask that. Additionally, one even said that because I’m making them take time off of work, that guest could decide to spend less on a wedding gift for us because they were missing work.

    If that day works for you and Saturday doesn’t (higher cost, etc.), go for it. It may inconvenience people but if they want to be there at your wedding they’ll be there. My Fiance likened it to people having destination weddings. A family member of his is having a destination wedding and everyone was on board for it, no one made her feel bad that some people can’t make it. But hey, it’s what she wanted. So she’s asking people to spend more to travel during the weekday, take more time off work, to attend her wedding. Yeah, you could say that people get a mini vacation out of it but if the issue was that the wedding makes people miss work, why did I get all the complaints?

    I’m sorry, I’m blabbering on. Unresolved feelings… Again, if it works for you, DON’T let anyone tell you or make you feel bad that your WEDDING is an inconvenience. It’s not. It’s a joyous occasion which you want to share with people you love.

    So, Friday or Saturday is both equal to me!

    Post # 11
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    It wouldn’t inconvenience ME b/c I don’t have a M-F type of job, but when we were considering a Friday night, and my sister was talking about it with our Dad, he said he would pay for our venue if we moved it to Saturday….haha…

    Post # 12
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    322 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Well, if it’s an evening wedding, guests may get stuck in rush hour traffic, considering they’re coming from 1.5-2 hours away. People may also have to take the day off of work, which isn’t always ideal. I know a lot of friends who have had Friday weddings to save money, but if you could do Saturday I’ll always lean towards that.

    Post # 13
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    Buzzing bee

    I would decide on what WE want. As long as the closest to you can make it, then i woouldn’t worry too much. Go for it!

    Post # 14
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    Buzzing bee

    ops, double post.

    Post # 15
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I can see it both ways. I have been to two friday afternoon weddings. Both were inconvienent because I did end up having to take a vacation day for travel and what have you. But on the other hand, I did have the whole weekend free afterwards for both, which was great and I didnt have to give up a saturday.

    Soo, I guess what I am saying is do what is best for you! 

    Post # 16
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    We are having a Friday early evening wedding with a brief reception afterwards and an all-day/all-night pig roast on Saturday.

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