posted 3 years ago in No Kids
Post # 2
326 posts
Helper bee

I’m not sure about a sociopath but I do believe he  is abusive. 

Post # 3
6806 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

He is abusive. Full stop.

Thank your lucky stars you aren’t legally married. Ditch this asshole. 

Post # 4
741 posts
Busy bee

dawn92 :  Is he your husband or not? It doesn’t matter if he’s a sociopath or not, it’s not a good relationship. 

Post # 5
9630 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL

Sociopath? I don’t know; I’m not a psychologist so I can’t say with certainty. Loser? Yes. Abusive? Yes. Controlling? Definitely.

I would count it as luck that he’s “letting you” get out of this relationship. He sounds like a horrible, manipulative skeeve. Run, don’t walk.

And please, try your best to mend your relationships you lost over this guy. You will need them now more than ever.

Post # 6
2627 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - Hogarths, Solihull

dawn92 :  He sounds abusive (cutting you off from Friends and Family, blaming you over the cheating) and he kinda sounds like an asshole to me. 

What do you mean you aren’t legally married? If there’s no marriage certificate then just leave the jerk. If you call your family and explain then I’m sure they’ll understand. 

Failing that, get some money out of your accounts in cash and go stay at a hotel for a little bit. Do it in cash so he can’t trace you if he changes his mind about letting you leave.

Post # 7
4027 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

This is all really, really bad…He would do you the biggest favor of your life if he left. He is a crazy abusive man. Is there any family member or friend that you know you would try getting a hold of and who could help you get away from him? 

Post # 8
168 posts
Blushing bee

You need to get a hold of family or friends immediately. Because you need their help. Especially if you are going to be out of a place to live. And explain to them what you explained to us. They love you and I am sure once they understand the circumstances, they are going to find a way to help you. Do that before anything else and get far away from him.

Post # 9
1883 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

dawn92 :  don’t diagnose him with any psychiatric disorders. He’s a liar and an abuser, plain and simple. Isolating you from friends and family, and blaming you for the shitty things he does to you are all classic, textbook signs of abuse – he’s not some special snowflake who’s so unique that no one understands. He absolutely IS doing you a huge favor by letting you out of a relationship where you are treated like shit and told it’s all your fault. You don’t love him – he tells you that you don’t even know the real him, believe that! Call your family – tell them the situation. They will help!  

Post # 10
392 posts
Helper bee

I don’t know that he’s a sociopath, but he definitely sounds like an asshole. I’m sorry, Bee. 🙁 

Post # 11
9828 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Nah, he’s just a dick until he starts offing the neighbors pets or something.

Post # 13
135 posts
Blushing bee

Get the hell out.  Everything you described is textbook abusive behavior.  And referring to this man as a “Christian” is an insult to Christians. 

Post # 14
370 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: City, State

I don’t know if he is a sociopath, but he is abusive and harmful. I strongly recommend talking to people that you trust, and making a plan to get out of there. There are also abuse helplines and charities that can assist you in safely getting away from him. You deserve better than this horrible person.

Post # 15
2523 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013


grapefruithero :  +10000


this man definitely brings shame to the name ‘Christian’


get out now from this relationship. He is abusive, controlling and has extremely warped views – FYI his cheating is completely his fault, not yours. 

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