(Closed) Is he cheating ? ..

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
9168 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Don’t create and account and try to “catfish” him. Just ask him like a mature adult.  You’ll know by his reaction if he is doing something wrong or not.

Post # 33
4996 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Just ask him. If he’s been acting completely normal it’s probably just spam. 

Post # 34
5708 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

We both get these spam messages all the time.If he doesn’t have an account created it was probably just a popup ad.

Post # 35
1344 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

How many pop up sites actually come onto ipods? I would investigate more. My investigation would be verbal communication with him. I would confront it head on. I think making up a fake profile on the website is stressful and sneaky. I think assuming it’s a pop up ad is being a little bit in denial. I would communicate with him and let him know that you saw it, how it made you feel, and ask why it was there. If he lies to cover it up, you shouldn’t be marrying him. Communication is key!

Post # 36
1286 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

I know that you’re scared of finding out the truth in case it confirms your fear of cheating……..but you need to just ask him. Good luck.

Post # 37
606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Hoenstly I get these messages all the time too. However if you’re worried talk to him about it.

Post # 38
123 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Beebee225:  Just to let you know, fuckbook.com is a pop up that comes up when you go on sites like ebaumsworld and those sorts. I get it all the time when I’m cruising the computer. I’m hoping you didn’t find him actually logged into it, but that it was just a pop up like I get.

Post # 39
454 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Meh, I would just ask him. Definitely don’t make a fake account to try to “catch” him in the act of something….to me, that just screams that you don’t trust someone.  I wouldn’t jump to crazy conclusions because I found a pop-up ad. Or even if he actually pulled up the website, it could have been that he was just benignly curious. I know I’ve pulled up crazy stuff that I actually had no interest in because I’d heard it mentioned in a conversation or something. 

Post # 40
120 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2019 - City, State

I got a fuckbook pop-up just last night. I do not and never have had an account there.

Post # 41
120 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2019 - City, State

To add to the pop-up theory, now that I’ve thought on it a little more: if he were actually going to fuckbook, he’d probably be secretive about it and make sure he closed it before getting off his device. But if it’s a pop-up/pop-under, he might not even have noticed it was there before logging off. I don’t know how many times I’ve closed umpteen windows and only then realized there was a Netflix ad floating around behind them.

Post # 42
71 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2018

I know that Fuckbook is on just about every porn site as an ad so it’s possible he was browsing and accidentally clicked. That’s what I’d assume before I assumed her was being unfaithful if he was recently being as wonderful as you said. Otherwise I’d be straight up like ‘what is this?’ and laugh at it a little.

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