Post # 1
Hi so my boyfriend keeps on talking about rings but joking like how I’m going to have to wait for ages for one and recently bought himself one and said it was so he didn’t have to get me a ring yet. For the past few weeks he’s been bringing up weddings and I know he can’t keep a secret so don’t know if it’s his way of letting it out without telling me? We have a holiday in a couple of months and friends are joking that he’ll do it then, but I’m so confused.
Post # 2
is there anything specifically making you think he will propose soon? Do you know when he imagines himself getting married? If he’s joking that you won’t be engaged soon I would be inclined to believe him.
Post # 3
What kind of ring did he buy himself? How long have y’all been together?
Post # 4
More details required unless you want us to look in the crystal ball
Post # 5
We’ve been together a year and he’s been talking about how he sees himself settling down with me, and I believe he will do it in 2018.
I just know what hes like when he gets excited and wants to tell everyone and I just wasn’t sure if talking about rings all the time was his way of saying something without completely spilling the beans.
Post # 6
A suggestion: talk to him. Hints, jokes, talking about weddings, and buying himself a ring (wth?) are not decipherable with our Secret Decorder Rings.
If you want to marry this guy, you should be able to talk to him about your shared future.
Post # 7
I thought we were using our Secret Decoder Rings this time. Damn. Now I’m way behind.
Post # 8
My advice; go be an adult and have a grown up conversation with him. Asking internet strangers if your boyfriend of only a year is going to propose to you when absolutely none of us have met him personally is like asking a fish to climb a tree.
Post # 9
If he has gone from never talking about rings to suddenly bringing the subject up out of nowhere… then I would guess he’s been giving it some thought. It might not be tomorrow, but at the very least, he’s imagining a future with you.
If you want to return that playful vibe without straight up asking him if he’s going to propose, just turn it around on him. Next time he makes a ring comment, say something like, “Well, you’ve certainly been talking about rings a lot lately for someone who’s not planning on getting me one anytime soon. Why such a tease?”