- 7 years ago
So my SO and I have been talking about getting married for a little while and we decided to use an herloom ring of my family’s as the e-ring. So bascially I have to give it to him before he can propose. Anyway, he got laid off awhile back so that temporarily put that on hold, but a few weeks ago finally found a job. I was going to wait another month or so to give him the ring, but he’s been making more and more comments about getting married and one of his good friends made an interesting comment to me tonight which makes me think that he’s fishing around for how I feel. His friend asked me (SO wasn’t there) if I thought SO had to be employed a certain amount of time before he propsed. I found the question rather odd, why the friend would care? So I’m thinking that maybe SO got his friend to kinda feel me out on the subject. What do you think? Give him the ring sooner rather than later or wait? Am I reading too much into this? HELP!