Is He into me?

posted 1 year ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 2
9174 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

one thing i learned, if a guy is into you, you will know. you will never need to question it. trust me.

Post # 3
474 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2018 - City Hall

arnsmsn :  The fact that he withdrew a bit after you opened up to him doesn’t sound good to me… But I agree with PP, when a man is really into you, you will know!

Think about it… When you REALLY like someone, you just can’t help yourself. You will text them because you’re thinking of them, you will go out of your way to hopefully see them, you will try and make plans, etc. Whether you want it to be known or not, the other person can usually tell you’re into them because you are drawn to them and can’t help but show interest. 

IMO, I’d want a guy who’s not afraid to go for me and put himself out there… I want a guy who is over the moon for me and not afraid to show it! Obviously I want to be over the moon for them too 😉

Post # 4
898 posts
Busy bee

Yes I agree with PP who said if a guy is into you…you will know. You won’t question where you stand with him. It’s true!!

Post # 5
12076 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

An online friendship is not real life. If your former classmate wanted to suggest getting together, no doubt he would have by now. To be honest, I’d be concerned by anyone posting or writing about their personal life to this extent on Facebook. 

Post # 6
115 posts
Blushing bee

If you have to question it, he’s not.  

Post # 7
601 posts
Busy bee

No, he’s not into you.  Sorry bee!

Post # 8
3312 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

Sorry bee. He isn’t into you.

Post # 9
6592 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

arnsmsn :  Sounds friendly, nothing much more.  It’s possible he was temporarily interested but either realized you didn’t have enough in common, long distance is a pain, or you opened up about your ex enough for him to realize you’re not over him.  You definitely aren’t over him (he left you “just” because he fell in love with someone else?  Seems like a good reason to me!).  Not trying to be a jerk, but if I were into someone and they kept talking about their ex, I’d distance myself for sure.  I’ve also been in situations where I’ve been really into guys until I got to know a bit more about them and realized it wasn’t worth bothering with a relationship – no dates necessary.

Keep him as a friend to lift your spirits, but don’t worry anything more.  You need to get over the ex first anyway.  Seven years is a long time.

Post # 10
2690 posts
Sugar bee

This sounds like highschool. No, he’s not into you.

Post # 11
491 posts
Helper bee

You’ve been chatting regularly since February. Have you actually seen him in person?

Post # 12
112 posts
Blushing bee

I’m curious about what exactly you said when you opened up about your ex

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