(Closed) Is he just trying to throw me off?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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120 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I totally think he is proposing on your trip.  (1) you know he bought the ring, (2) he said there is plenty of time left in the year, (3) you are going on a trip, and (4) already knowing that you won’t move in before engagement, he has suggested that you look at places together.  Don’t read too much into his comment about not pressuring you to move in if you aren’t ready.  That to me does not at all suggest that he isn’t going to propose before year end.  Good luck, but it doesn’t sound like you need it!  Smile

Post # 4
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1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think your SO is totally ready to propose on your trip, especially if he keep assuring you that you will not look into moving in together until you are engaged. It sounds like he’s got something planned, otherwise none of you will be moving forward.

Only wish I stipulated engagement before I moved in with my SO – nearly 2 years living together now and still no engagement :/

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think your bf is trying to throw you off.  I think the comment about proposing before the end of the year pretty much sealed the deal so it seems like it’ll happen soon!  // I have the same stipulations with my bf, too.  I told him that I didn’t want to move (he lives 2 states away) without some commitment.   And, I’m equally as confused as you are!  lol  My little sister slipped and told me he had been shopping for a ring but then, he told me if I wanted to go ahead and find another apartment for myself, it’s fine too. 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

We’re totally on the same boat!  I keep getting these comments here and there and how we’re going to get engaged and such.  I never brought up the topic either! lol  I try to stay away from it because I don’t want to keep setting myself up for disappointment.  //  Good luck, dearie! 

 

Post # 9
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1106 posts
Bumble bee

I hope it happened or will happen in the next 6 minutes! Please let us know if it did/does!!!!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

Congrats! Hope to see photos soon! 😀

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