(Closed) Is he or did he – come to the shower?

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
13294 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Nope, he had no interest in being there, and I didn’t want him there either.  He came after it was all over when we were cleaning up to help lug things out to the car!

Post # 4
396 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would love for him to be there actually. His siter is throwing one for me in their hometown nd I really don’t know many people there. But hehas a softball tournament that weekend so he won’t be able to make it.

Post # 5
3765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

He only came to the couples’ shower we had.

Post # 6
523 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013 - Callanwolde Fine Arts Center

We had a couples shower hosted by my FI’s family friends. I definitely wanted him there since everyone that was invited was a friend of his family and I had only ever met them at church a few times.


Post # 7
9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

No, my shower was the same weekend as his stag weekend in Vegas. But if he’d been in town I would have had him pop in at the end for a qtuba masjid from both of us and to help me carry stuff. 

Post # 8
3078 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

No, he ran in the opposite direction lol

Post # 9
50 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

My Fiance is definitely coming to all showers thrown for me/us. I cannot open all the presents alone, I hate the awkwardness of opening presents in front of people anyways, no chance will I do it alone haha.

Post # 10
2968 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

yes, he was there.

originally, he was only going to go at the very end when the party was winding down, but we had kind of a last minute change to the menu and needed someone to go pick up the food and my husband was “voluntold” for the task, haha. so he brought us the food and i would have felt bad making him leave after that, so he stayed for the rest of the shower. there wasn’t much left to do anyway. we just ate and opened gifts.

Post # 11
5494 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2011

Yes my Darling Husband came and totally surprised me.  He come right as we were sitting down to open presents.  He brought flowers and opened all the gifts with me.  

Post # 12
260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

My fiance will be attending for a little in the beginning and again at the end. It’s 2 hours away from where we live so it makes sense for him to just go up the same time as me. My dad will also be there for a little while.

Post # 13
8695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Mine wont be there.

1. He wouldnt want to be

2. He is in the military so he wont be here anyway

Post # 14
2359 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

We had a co-Ed shower, which I loved!

Post # 15
1966 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

No its all ladies. There will be someone from the staff to load the car. 

Post # 16
445 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

He will definitely be there, I don’t want to open the gifts alone!!

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