- 3 years ago
So I have this ex boyfriend , who I dated like 11yrs ago and we keep in contact through out the years on and off, now we are both single but he lives in another state. I could not keep him out of my mind so I reached out to him, which is out of character for me to do , but I thought I had nothing to lose. Right away we hit it off but I’m scared that all he wants is sex, he told me he is interested in something serious , he talked about marriage and the possibility of kids someday, he already has a daughter from a previous marriage and I have 2 kids although I never got married, when I told him that I had a 14 month son he said he wished it was our son. We’ve been in intact for week , he has video called me and we chat throughout the day but I feel like sex is constantly mentioned, I’ve told him I’m not ready to talk about that and would like to just get to know each other even more and see where things go to which he agrees but he tells me he wishes it was me who he married , that he wants to have sex when we see each other and I’ve told him I’m scared to get hurt by him and idk what to do , little help here guys .