- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
I’m not sure if SO is being super sweet, or deliberately trying to torture me lol.
Background: I haven’t posted much, but if anyone has read one, SO and I have already begun the back-and-forth process of wedding planning (what can we afford? destination by ourselves? can/will others come? have it in hometown? budget? budget? budget?) and I got so stressed out the other day from other people’s opinions on the subject matter (I love them for wanting to be there on our big day, but I’d rather elope somewhere fabulous than throw a wedding for 50 people that ends up ghetto, for lack of a better word) but at the end of the day it’s our money and we don’t have much.
So yesterday I exclaimed, “Ugh! I’m sick of it! Imagine how many people are going to butt in with their opinions when we’re actually engaged!” to which he promptly responded, “Oh, babe, we’re engaged; you just don’t have the ring yet.”
And then he proceeded to tell me that he ran his proposal ideas by a girl friend of his who said it was amazing and would sweep me off my feet.
I think the man is trying to torture me lol