Post # 1
SO is going to propose soon. That I know. What I don’t know is how soon. I’m guessing on two possibilities– on our 5th anniversary next week (EEK) or during our trip to Yosemite a couple weeks out in commemoration of our anniversary. We were talking about what to do on the actual night of our anniversary (on a Thursday) and I suggested going out to get drinks at a rooftop bar with a really awesome view of San Francisco. He said it sounded like a good idea but we still wanted to find a separate place to actually get dinner first. The next day he comes back with an idea to get dinner at a place that is just okay.. like $12 plates (trust me I’m not complaining about anything here) and a bit of a view, but nothing too exciting. Chances are I’m reading WAY too far into this because I’m anxiously waiting… but do you think he could’ve suggested that to throw me off and that he could be planning to propose that night afterall? Personally I think he’s waiting until Yosemite trip but I’m not so sure any more.
I realize this is a silly post, I’m just day dreaming here. What do you think?
Post # 2
I think that putting too much thought into guessing when he will do it leads to a lot of disappointment and ruined dates/experiences that would have been lovely without the expectation of a proposal.
Post # 3
Stop overthinking everything! It’ll just lead to disappointment. Try to relax and think of other things.
Post # 4
hikingbride: You’re completely right. At this point it’s really hard to stop my thought patterns, but I guess I’ll just let it go and it’ll be what it be.
Post # 5
When I was where you are now I expected a proposal at every turn, vacation, fancy dinner, when coming home from work… He surprised me on a night without anything unusual planned, but he made it unique and perfect. Don’t over analyze, you will only make yourself nuts. when it happens it will be perfect, especially when it is unexpected
Post # 6
My bf took me to Barcelona last October & I was convinced he was going to propose. I got my nails done, got landscaping done, the works went into this trip. So our last night there he says lets go out for a fancy dinner and he puts on his good shirt and pants. He usually wears shorts & flip flops 24/7 so this was big! He. Didn’t. Propose. Like he legit just wanted to eat someplace fancy. Well even though I tried really hard to not get pissy I ended up picking fights with him and ruined our last night & morning. Try not to mkae the same mistake as me and go in with ridiculously high expectations cause you’ll end up not enjoying your time. I know your guy’s proposal is going to be magical no matter when/where he decides to propose! Either way happy anniversary!! ❤