(Closed) Is is proper to invite people to multiple showers?

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1514 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I think ettiquete-wise it’s okay to invite to both, but they only have to bring one present to one or the other, not to both.

Post # 4
778 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

Why not send them an invite that shows both dates/locations and ask them to RSVP to one of them.  Let them choose.

Post # 5
2640 posts
Sugar bee

I like Chela’s idea.  I understood that etiquette wise, you weren’t supposed to invite to more than one shower.  But I think if they truly understand they are not to bring two presents, then there’s probably no harm.  (Although some folks might feel uncomfortable going to a shower without a gift, even if they just gave one.  I’d wonder if the other women at the shower would be pointing and whispering, "Why didn’t Tanya give a gift?"

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