(Closed) is it ACTUALLY going to happen?!

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1325 posts
Bumble bee

Well, I won’t be getting engaged or married anytime soon, but I can just imagine how excited you feel. Personally when something I’ve wanted to badly for so long finally happens, I tend to get kind of zen and trance-like. Then the day of I just explode and totally lose it!

 

Post # 4
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600 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2006

I know exactly what you’re talking about.  We’ve been together 6 years and he finally said he’s been thinking more about marriage positively and said probably around 7 months from now!  I just couldn’t believe it when he said that, it’s like shell shock almost.  I’m so used to hearing groans about talking about marriage that hearing anything other is like “….. wha…?….”  I just won’t believe it until there’s literally a ring on my finger.

Good luck to you!!! Here’s to your waiting being almost over!

Post # 5
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3303 posts
Sugar bee

*yay* con’grats I know exactly how you feel. I can not believe that yes, it is going to happen even though I am fully aware it is *yay*

Post # 6
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786 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I definitely know how you feel..  After 9 1/2 years of dating it does seem unreal that the time will finally come for me..  to the point where if he asks I might be tempted to say “really??  are you sure??”  haha..  🙂  And have everyone else say “finally!!” when we go to announce the news..  I might ask what made him finally do it..  It would seem like a dream..

But thats awesome that your guy is finally ready and definitely warming up to the idea though.  It will come soon!  🙂  Good luck!  It is a relief though to see the gradual change on your boyfriend’s attitude though!  some guys move slower than others but you know when they do it, they will mean it.

Post # 7
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3799 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m having a hard time believing it too. I’m actually getting really nervous because I just never though I’d be at this point in my life. Strange, but true. I’m really, really, really excited and when I get excited I get nervous. It hits me throughout the day and I can hardly wait!!!

Post # 8
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49 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I know how you feel also! We have been together for almost six and a half years, and we had agreed that our ‘timeline’ was somewhere between when he gets his bonus from work (mid-Feb) to June.

He surprised me and proposed on Sunday (before the bonus!) I’m still in shock.  After all this waiting it’s real~!

Now I’m a little overwhelmed/stressed about the wedding but just enjoying the engagement.

Hang in there Yellow430 – excited for you!

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