- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
SO i just recently got engaged in January and asked my Best friend(we have been friends 7 years) to be my bridesmaid of course she sais yes but never seemed to happy for me. well about a month after i told her i was engaged we were getting ready to go wedding dress shopping for myself and mt Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaid or Best Man when i get a text from my BF/BM saying…. ” im only telling you this becuase the place you are going to look at wedding dresses is the place i bought mine and i didnt want you to find out that way but we have been planning our wedding since October 2012 (its now Feb 2013) so heres a few things that upset me… 1. she knew since October and did not tell me and she always says i am her best friend! 2. she knew for over a year now that there is a certain place i said id LOVE to have my wedding /reception at but when it comes down to it i cant because I am paying for my weddging well suprise she is having her reception there and the only reason she can is because they are not paying for their wedding. 3. i have always said since here and i have become best friends she would ALWAYS stand up with me when i got married and maybe i was dumb but i figured since she said i was her Boyfriend or Best Friend i would be involved in hers too well come to find out i wasnt involved in any part of her wedding i could NOT even go wedding dress shopping with her! that hurt me!! 4. she kind of threw it up in my face that she is paying for the MOH/BM and groomsmen outfits because i cant pay for my wedding party but again i dont have ppl paying for everything else for me i am paying for it! and 5. things about my wedding thta i told her i was doing (before i knew she was gettting married less than a month after me) now she is taking some of the same ideas!!! so anyway after i confronted her she keeps saying im the one thats not being a good friend and saying im not happy for her and acting like i ned to apologize to her i am happy for her im just hurt i wasnt told my best friend was getting married and im not a part of it in anyway and now im hte bad guy 🙁
so now i guess i just want to know is it dumb im hurt? do i have the right to be hurt? should i care???? please give me some feedback!