Post # 1
SO is meeting his ex wife at the courthouse this afternoon to finally get the divorce order signd. So in about 3 hours he’s all mine officially. We’ve been togther almost 3 years, he’s been seperated for almost 5 so this is just a formality. We’ve talked about getting married next year, he has links to the Moissies I love and I’ve just been waiting….
He just msgd to confirm I’m not working tonight, then said we have plans. I asked if I need to dress up and he said: It would be cool if you did. Nothing crazy, just look sexy. You’ll get lots of attention if you do.
WTF?!?!? I’m freaking out and also trying not to get my hopes up but anyone who knows my SO is thoroughly confused because he doesn’t make plans.. I tell him its date night and then at 7pm I’m deciding where to go cause he can’t decide. The only plans he makes is plans to not have plans!
Post # 2
Dont jump the gun. Just relax and dont expect it because if it doesnr happen ur gonna be so upset. He might just wanna celebrate or you could be right. But i suggest not to jump the gun. Good luck! Let us know!
Post # 3
Don’t get your hopes up because if it doesn’t happen you will be so let down. He may want to celebrate the fact that his divorce his final and he can move on.
Post # 4
- Wedding: April 2013 - Rhode Island
I definitely wouldn’t get my hopes up just in case. My DH was originally going to propose at this place called La Salette where they display hundreds of Christmas lights. But it just didn’t feel right to him, so he ended up scrapping the plan while we were there and taking me to dinner the next day instead. I kind of felt like he was going to propose at La Salette, but it didn’t happen. When we went to dinner the next night, I thought ok now it’s going to happen. We went through the whole dinner and were done and ready to go before he finally proposed. I had given up on it happening then too, LOL! It’s fine to be excited and wonder if this is it, but don’t get SUPER excited because then you probably won’t be able to hide your disappointment. Whenever it does happen, you are going to be overjoyed. So just relax and let it happen when it happens.
Post # 5
Be excited the divorce is finalized! Unfortunately I think its likely he wants to celebrate the divorce being finalized not an engagement the same day. But it does sound like it will come along soon now that the divorce is final, good luck!!
Post # 6
he’s finally getting divorced and all you can think about is getting engaged?! you should be happy he’s getting his divorce finalized!
Post # 7
robynrox47: how did it go hunni?
Post # 9
travelbee: Mrs-mcm-0507: Sorry ladies! Been MIA!
No proposal but we did have a great night… We didn’t celebrate the divorce although he did cheers and say: Well I’m all yours babe! So here I am still waiting!
Post # 10
robynrox47: itll be nice as a surprise!