(Closed) Is it horrible to love another man???Let me have it ‘m braced for my beating :(

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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1981 posts
Buzzing bee

Here’s the way I see it: if you think that fate is going to bring you and james back together in some way (or even that it may be fated), I think you should just stop talking to him. Be in the moment, love Andy and know that he’s the one for you. IF, and that’s a big if, fate ever drops James back off, you can decide what to do then. But it isn’t happening right now, and talking to James isn’t going to make this situation better. Good luck, girl!

Post # 19
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5988 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

MsH, you didnt have to provide any of that info but i thank you for your honesty. when you said deployment and depression i figured it was a minefield of pain and thats why i said i wasnt judging you because i have no right to do that

for me, i really think the imporant thing is to put your Fiance as your future focus for happiness as an equal partnership. if your Fiance emotionally satisifies you then i doubt you will need tthe outlet that James provided

he sounds like a beautiful angel that you needed at a very low point of your life – im glad you had someone to depend on

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