(Closed) Is it improper to invite girls who are not wedding guests to the bachelorette?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I let my cousin, who is planning my bachelorette but not a BM, invite her non-guest friends?
    yes, it's a nice gesture espeically since she is not a BM and doing BM work : (5 votes)
    20 %
    yes, the more the merrier! : (5 votes)
    20 %
    no, only wedding guests should be invited to the bachelorette : (15 votes)
    60 %
  • Post # 3
    606 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    My Maid/Matron of Honor planned my bachelorette party and she invited a few people (after asking me if it was ok) who weren’t invited to the wedding. It was really fun 🙂 But they all knew they weren’t wedding guests, it just ended up being a fun night out on the town with a bunch of girls.

    I’d say, whatever you want is what you should get. If you don’t want those other people to come, try to tastefully request they not be invited, but if you don’t mind other people, there’s no rule saying they can’t come (as long as they know not to expect an invite).

    Post # 4
    442 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I voted before I read the whole thing! Sorry about that. Anyway I think you can totally invite the camp friends. I also think you can Vito the girls you don’t like. It’s a fun night out in your honor so you can choose the guests. 

    Post # 5
    9631 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

    I think it’s fine to invite non-wedding guests, but only people you know and like and are happy with, as it is a party in YOUR honour, so it should be with YOUR friends

    Post # 6
    701 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2004

    yep i had a smallish wedding but still wanted to celebrate with friends so a whole heap came that wernt invited to the wedding. they didnt mind at all!

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