(Closed) Is it just me?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2253 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@iammcdibble:  I don’t have the best relationship with my mother also due to her abusive nature either. I wasn’t able to rely on her for my weddng either. She actually made some ugly comments to me before, during, and after the wedding. Some examples, at my dress rehearsal she told me I looked like I was pregnant even though I didn’t. While I was getting ready for my wedding and spending private time with my BMs, she barged in and yelled at me randomly about some food I had catered in for everyone to snack on before the ceremony. The point of my rant is you’re not alone. I can tell you though it’s sad you don’t have the support system you should, you will be so proud of what you will accomplish with your wedding on your own. 

Post # 4
9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

From what I’ve seen over the past few months, there are a lot of women on here who do not have the best relationships with their mothers.  I wonder if there is a way to change your post title to elicit a larger response.  


I have a good relationship with my mom, but she has nothing to say about weddings.  So, I rely on my friends and on this website for advice.  

Post # 5
1066 posts
Bumble bee

@iammcdibble:  Family is not always blood. Sometimes those closest to us and who make us feel loved, are friends..Have someone beside you who you can rely on and trust, and who genuinely cares. I won’t have either of my parents at my wedding,but the people there will make my day special…x

Post # 6
11233 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’ll join the club. She wouldn’t be any help with this kind of thing anyway–I think my grandma planned her wedding anyway. I’m doing okay, though.

Post # 8
3420 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

@iammcdibble:  “I just get worried that I’m going to do something wrong or say something wrong and not know any better because I don’t have anyone telling me what the right thing to do is”  <— Like some mothers know what is the right thing to do is????

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