(Closed) is it just me?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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207 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I think you should let him know how serious this it. Bc who has yrs to waste on someone who isnt on the same page?  Let him know what your future plans are and encourage him to look at rings together. That way he will know your not 

just bluffing. I had the same problem but mine was more waiting on my Fiance to finish paying off my ring. It took him a yr and 2 months to pay off bc his doesnt like to charge things on credit cards. So all my friends were getting engaged befire me and I was going crazy! But I felt a little better bc at least I knew he was paying on my ring. In your situation , you have to be really honest with him and tell him its time to get a on the same page ( im not saying get a ring tommorw) but at oesst be working towards it… or if he still not interested  move on bc you cannot wait forever.

Post # 4
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1005 posts
Bumble bee

Oh, my SO knows me well enough to know that I would propose without any compunctions; one of the first times he brought up marriage, about six or seven months into our relationship, he said,  “I wouldn’t be comfortable with you proposing.  I want to be the one to do it.”  (This was before I had even decided I was ready to marry him!)  Sometimes of late I fantasize about how I would go about popping the question to him if he hadn’t said that, though!

Post # 5
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6355 posts
Bee Keeper

You can always ask him his thoughts on women proposing.

Plenty of couples do do that! But just in case he really wants it to be him, he’ll let you know if you ask him in a more general way.

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