(Closed) Is it just me or do you feel overwhelmed?

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
Member
5670 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Sorry you are overwhelmed! I am beyond overwhelmed right now because hubby and I made the decision to go off bc after the summer and before you know it the summer was over. However since I am freaking out a little I have decided to still go off bc and let me body regulate. It could take 1 cycle or 12 so at least this should give me some time to really think and if I want to wait a little longer than at least I will be completely ready when we do try. So if you focus on you and getting your testing, shots, etc. and get your body ready then maybe by that time Darling Husband will be ready too.

Post # 4
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sorry you feel that way!  We are a few years younger than you so the baby urges aren’t too strong yet and I feel like I still have time.  We are planning on buying a house so that will keep be distracted for a while but after that who knows?

Post # 5
Member
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

We have a baby now (just had her and I’m 28), but I tend to worry about having the next b/c I don’t want to wait too long due to age. My husband did make the point that if we wanted to wait 5 years (which we don’t, he was just making a point that I don’t have to freak out and rush to get pregnant again), I’ll be 33. Which is still a good baby making age!

Post # 7
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1508 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Kenyabeb,

I’m struggling with the same issues. I want couple time and time to travel, my husband wants a baby now. I’m fairly certain that I want children but I’m going to miss couple time and travel. I’m afraid we’ll never have couple time and travel will be a thing of the past.  At 28 you still have time, baring health concerns you could easily wait another year. I’m 38 and time is running out.  One could say I’ve had plenty of time but we married late, we were both 36 when we got married.

I did go ahead and go off BC last November.

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