(Closed) Is it just me or is this stupid?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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509 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Gavinsmamma:  Your sister was way out of line. I’m sorry that you’re getting caught up in the drama of it all. Hope it all goes well for you!

Post # 4
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369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

That sucks!!  I’m sorry you’re stuck in the middle.  Very nice of your inlaws to throw you shower though..

Post # 5
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3583 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think a lot of miscommunication happened and maybe you might consider having a split shower.  The people that can come to the first will, and the rest can come to the rest.  Is that terrible?  I understand that people are like ‘what is going on’ but you did tell your sister that you were okay without one so she is likely still thinking that SHE should be providing one now that your grandmother can throw it.  I don’t think you should throw the baby out with the bath water.  Have two if you have to.

Post # 6
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242 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

You have great in laws.  This is all on your sister.  She should have asked not told you.

Post # 7
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418 posts
Helper bee

I totally agree with @Soonergirl518. While I think it’s great your sister wanted to throw you a shower, your in-laws offered first. And, she should have just accepted it and stepped down. I’m sorry your dealing with this unnecessary stress just 6 weeks (ohmygosh it’s almost here you must be so excited!!!) from your wedding date.

Post # 9
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699 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

glad to hear it worked out!

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