(Closed) Is it normal?

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 2
2029 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Nope, that’s not normal. And I’m not trying to be rude at all…it’s just that those feelings you have and the way you express them are really nasty. I think you need to dig a little deeper to find out where this is coming from, and in the meantime remember that it’s a personal issue and don’t take it out on them (ie taking longer in the bathroom just to be petty).

Post # 4
3737 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

That’s a lot of anger in one post…

Post # 5
3930 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012


Post # 6
1974 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2019

You know it’s not normal. It isn’t healthy either.

Post # 7
4509 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

You need to dig deep down and find some patience and understanding.  Treat others how you would like to be treated.

Post # 8
401 posts
Helper bee

Find a way to turn off the rude. Seriously. You intentionally taking your time because you’re annoyed that she has to pee? What the heck is that?

Not a miracle? We had to try for three years and pay over 20k for fertility treatment to get pregnant. It’s a pretty big miracle to us. You may not have the entire story of what they went through to get to this point.

Just because you experienced pregnancy one way doesn’t mean it’s that way for everyone.




Post # 9
8066 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

No that’s not normal.  Do you hate them for some reason?  Did they do something to you?  You’re being really rude and a huge jerk but I’m not sure why.  Do you have anger issues?  Maybe seeing a therapist would help.

Post # 10
457 posts
Helper bee

Your attitude is pretty gross.

Oh and no, it’s not normal. If you hate them and their unborn child so much, maybe you should move out?

Post # 11
664 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

You can’t exactly go faster when you’re using the toilet, so it was a little frustrating for them to try to rush you out, but your reaction seems over the top. Roll your eyes and let it go– it sounds like she’s being a bit of a “woe is me” kind of person, and the family is playing into it, but it really should be a minor frustration to you and not so rage-inducing. Let it go.

Post # 13
1221 posts
Bumble bee

I had to pee the entire time I was pregnant. It’s hormones, not just the baby bumping up against your bladder. Calm the eff down. Everyone experiences pregnancies differently, and you are being really petty. 

If she doesn’t know how to “adult,” then she’ll be at a disadvantage for the rest of her life, or if something happens to your brother. It’s really not your concern. Let her use the bathroom, FFS.

Post # 14
1939 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Each woman’s experience with pregnancy is different. While you were able to do a lot while carrying your babies, which is incredible, some women don’t have the same pain tolerances or motivation to try very hard. I think you may of pinpointed part of the reason why you’re upset though, you mentioned it didn’t cost her $20k to get pregnant, that it was easy for her. You may just need to steer clear for awhile until you can sort those feelings out. 

Post # 15
486 posts
Helper bee

I usually hate when bees post the overdone “you need counseling” advice, but in this case I think it is warranted. You sound incredibly angry and over the top in a lot of aspects. Maybe some anger management and talk therapy will help you get to the root of your issues. If not, I doubt people will want to be around you much longer. 

Also, you are the mother of children. That kind of behavior is really not acceptable when you are a role model for children. 

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