(Closed) Is it normal for it to just not happen occasionally?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Totally normal!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I think it’s normal.  On occasion, Fiance and I will be in the middle, and I know it just isn’t happening for me.  I am one of those people that when I get stressed out with work, wedding planning, etc. sex just isn’t for me.  Fiance always feels bad, but offers to make up for it other ways 🙂

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

yup. normal. honestly i think we’ve only had that happen once or twice – but we don’t even start anything unless BOTH of us are in the mood.

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

This has happened when we try to make ourselves have sex. We have less sex because of that, but we also don’t have this issue anymore.

If it only happens once or twice a year, seriously, it should not even come into your mind as a ‘problem’. If it was every month, regularly, that’d be different.

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Very normal!  Don’t worry about it.

Post # 8
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Busy bee

very normal…I see this happen between Fiance and I all the time recently because we bought a house and are planning a wedding at the same time. it’s something thats bound to happen, it’s even more fun when you come back to it ; )

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

yup! pretty normal…but we try to have sex when we really want to only…therefore not tired or stressed or any of that…and it hasnt been a problem since.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

TOTALLY NORMAL!!!  Sometimes we’ve had too many glasses of wine, sometimes one of us has to pee, and sometimes it’s just “ok, that’s enough, I’d rather fall asleep now”.  No big deal at all!!!  I don’t even think twice about waving the white flag:-)

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

totally normal! we have had this happen to us too… we just shake it off and try it again next time 😉

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Of course!  Stress and emotions totally play into this.  I agree with missjyc, that the best thing you can do is shake it off (or maybe even laugh about it!), and move on.  Making a big deal about it will just cause more stress, for both of you.  I think if it’s only happening once or twice a year, you’re fine!

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Normal :]

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

normal, it’s nice you can be so honest with eachother!

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