Post # 1
OK, so this is really personal, but I’m hoping to see if anyone has anything similar going on..I love my fiance and usually we have NO problem in this department…but every once in a while like when we’re both extremely stressed either I just can’t get there or he doesn’t seem to be into it, and we have to just stop in the middle b/c we’re both too frustrated..I HATE it when this happens, it is so awkward..but I”m too honest to fake it and he is very honest too
is this normal or is this a forcast for a problem
just to give you an idea it happens about once or twice maybe every year
Post # 4
I think it’s normal. On occasion, Fiance and I will be in the middle, and I know it just isn’t happening for me. I am one of those people that when I get stressed out with work, wedding planning, etc. sex just isn’t for me. Fiance always feels bad, but offers to make up for it other ways 🙂
Post # 5
yup. normal. honestly i think we’ve only had that happen once or twice – but we don’t even start anything unless BOTH of us are in the mood.
Post # 6
This has happened when we try to make ourselves have sex. We have less sex because of that, but we also don’t have this issue anymore.
If it only happens once or twice a year, seriously, it should not even come into your mind as a ‘problem’. If it was every month, regularly, that’d be different.
Post # 7
Very normal! Don’t worry about it.
Post # 8
very normal…I see this happen between Fiance and I all the time recently because we bought a house and are planning a wedding at the same time. it’s something thats bound to happen, it’s even more fun when you come back to it ; )
Post # 9
yup! pretty normal…but we try to have sex when we really want to only…therefore not tired or stressed or any of that…and it hasnt been a problem since.
Post # 10
TOTALLY NORMAL!!! Sometimes we’ve had too many glasses of wine, sometimes one of us has to pee, and sometimes it’s just “ok, that’s enough, I’d rather fall asleep now”. No big deal at all!!! I don’t even think twice about waving the white flag:-)
Post # 11
totally normal! we have had this happen to us too… we just shake it off and try it again next time 😉
Post # 12
Of course! Stress and emotions totally play into this. I agree with missjyc, that the best thing you can do is shake it off (or maybe even laugh about it!), and move on. Making a big deal about it will just cause more stress, for both of you. I think if it’s only happening once or twice a year, you’re fine!
Post # 14
normal, it’s nice you can be so honest with eachother!