(Closed) Is it “normal” for me to watch porn with fiance?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Normal is whatever each couple makes it. For some that’s no porn, some like separate ‘alone time,’ others watch it together, make it together, make it with neighbors, whatever their comfort level. If you two enjoy it, then rock on! Your friend isn’t involved, so she shouldn’t mind. It’s not her business what happens in your bedroom. 

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

This is normal! Normal is what you make it. We do the same!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Im all for it! Why not, something different and it can give you ideas 😉

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

If by “normal” you mean, do a significant number of couples do it? Then yes, it is normal. But honestly, even if you were doing something with your husband that literally no one else on earth did in the bedroom, and you both liked it, so the eff what? What would that mean? Would you be like, oh crap, we’re not *normal*! We can’t do this anymore! Just because dressing up as a banana and bouncing on a trampoline while your husband jacks off into jars of pickles isn’t technically *normal* for most people doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it if it makes you happy, right?

Also, your friend sounds like a creepy downer, justsayin.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - Old Stone House in Brookyn

@Beluga:  I don’t know, you shouldn’t ruin perfectly good pickles like that!

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee

@mrs.folks:  If you like it, you both are happy and you have hot sex I don’t see a problem. Personally, I am not a big fan of porn but the industry makes millions of dollars every year, somebody is watching it! Your friend needs to shut her mouth.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’m a pretty straight-laced christian girl…southern baptist in all.  My pastor always throws porn into the same category as alcholism, grambling, etc.  Personally, a porn addiction could be like alcoholism, but I see no problem with it especially if you are watching it together and having sex.  Fantastiess, no matter what they are, are all part of good sex and sex is an important part of marriage.  Porn isn’t just for horny teenagers!!!!

 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I agree with Beluga. I wouldn’t worry so much about wha’s normal. If its something that works for you guys go for it.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Totally normal Wink if you’re both happy about it and it works for you then great!

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

not a big deal, i watch porn even without my Fiance, just recently hes gotten into watching porn at the computer while i *give* it makes for good times. everyone has their own since of ‘norm’ to me its not a big deal.

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