Post # 1
When I first got engaged my sister offered to let me wear her veil. I really like her veil and I said yes. She was so happy and excited that I was going to use it. I now have my dress and as much as I love her veil I don’t think it will go well with my dress. I found another veil that I love and I think will look very nice with it. I have not bought the other veil yet because I know it will make my sister sad when I tell her I want a different one. Now i dont know if I should just wear hers or get the other one that will hurt her feelings…what should I do??
Post # 3
I am sure she would understand if the veil did not match your dress. Just like she chose the veil that she loves, you have to choose the veil that you love.
Post # 4
She’ll understand that it doesn’t match your dress. You can express how much you were looking forward to wearing it and that you’re glad you found something that goes with the dress.
Post # 5
She’ll be fine, once you’re gentle in how you tell her.
Post # 6
I would try both veils on with your gown and ask your sister which one looks best. That way she gets to choose. Just tell her that they gave you the other one to try on to get a feel for what your dress would look like with a veil.