(Closed) Is it ok to request my bm wear hair down

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
4352 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@jackndiane:  If you’re paying for the styling, then yes you can ask for it to be a certain way. The only case in which I wouldn’t want you to do it is if you have a friend who wears their hair in braids for several weeks at a time, and you wanted them to be taken out for the wedding.

Post # 4
501 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think if you are paying for it, then that is fine. Maybe you could just let them know that you would like for everyone to wear their hair down, and that you are paying for a blowout. I would be fine with it if I were a Bridesmaid or Best Man.

Post # 5
1477 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

If you’re paying, then you can ask them to do whatever you want style-wise.

Post # 6
1278 posts
Bumble bee

I think it would be okay.  In every wedding that I’ve ever been in I was always told if it should be up or down, and in those they weren’t paying for a haridresser!  I think you will be fine, especially since you are paying.  Plus I love hair that is down!

Post # 7
879 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Of course that’s ok!  My girls expect me to direct their style – I just haven’t decided yet. Lol.

Post # 8
23602 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I think it will totally be okay.  Particularly if you’re doing an updo – then you can have an updo, and have the contrast of your bridesmaids with hair down!

Post # 9
84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Yeah, I agree. It is totally ok! Your paying, and its YOUR wedding! 

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