(Closed) is it ok to send out bridal shower invitation AFTER the wedding invitation?

posted 10 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
406 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Sending out the shower invitation first is not good.  It should not precede your beautiful wedding invitations.  People generally expect party invitations after the official announcement.  Just give them 2-3 weeks to check your registry.  You will undoubtedly have some folks who come to the shower who will not make it to the wedding for some reason.

Post # 4
77 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2019

funny you asked this question b/c my Maid/Matron of Honor wanted to send the STD for the shower and i told her we haven’t even sent the invites out yet! she’s just too prepared and way ahead of the game but now she’s going to wait until after we send the invites out.

Post # 5
4479 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Yes! Wow, your wedding and shower are so close! You are going to be one busy lady!

Post # 6
1385 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Hey you’re in the same boat as me! And yes we are sending them out after the formal wedding invitations. Several of my friends did the same thing- I wasn’t offended at all.

Post # 7
463 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

My shower is a week before the wedding.  hmmm, I didn’t even know that that’s considered close.  Oooopssssss!!!

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