(Closed) Is it okay for my theme to just be ‘Wedding’

posted 7 years ago in Themes
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

You don’t have to have a theme, you could just have a color or a feeling that brings cohesion to your wedding. I wouldn’t stress about it too much, I really don’t have a theme for mine, just using black and ivory to bring it all together.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Honestly, I NEVER heard of “themes” until joining the Bee. And if you do enough research on here, you will find that little details are rarely noticed by wedding guests, so no one will even care if you have a specific theme or not.

If you can’t come up with a theme, don’t have one. Have a wedding theme like you mentioned. : )

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I’m not really having a “theme” either. I’m just doing me? I’m from New Olreans so I’m incorporating our culture into it. We are having a second line, jazz mass, and tons of new orleans food at the reception. (jambalya, gumbo, crawfish pies, beignets, irish coffee, etc.)

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Heavens, yes, it’s fine to just have a wedding! I think a wedding is plenty exciting enough. In fact, my best friend (of 20 years) and I nearly threw a wedding-themed party last year just because we think wedding stuff is so much fun. With a big stacked up cake, a hotshot DJ, everyone you love, fancy jewelry, and the fanciest dress you’ll ever wear, who needs a theme?! That party sounds baller!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

We are having the same problem/thing….besides some bright colors and an overall feel, there’s not a way to build our theme in too much…it’s going to be super subtle…so I wouldn’t worry about it!

Ours is classic vintage Vegas…mostly because I didn’t want anything dated or tacky in my pictures…so we have the guys in suits, the girls in pink short dresses, cigars, classic drinks and sweets table, things like that…

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m having a “wedding” theme too! Lol. I don’t like the whole theme for weddings. I just like things simple. Great family, good food, good times!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Ah! I wish that I could have a second line!

Post # 11
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Busy bee

I’ve seen themeless weddings, it’s totally ok to have them

Post # 12
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Helper bee

I am not having a theme. I’m using a color scheme so things look coordinated but no theme. I actually feel like themes are too sweet 16.

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i spent weeks agonizing over themes and colors and patterns etc etc….

now that my wedding is five months away, the theme has turned into “things i like”.  i dont want to leave things out of my wedding because they don’t match etc…  if i love it, im going to use it! 🙂  im going to stick to a certain colour palette and let everything just fall into place.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

It’s your wedding.  Have or don’t have whatever you want!

Post # 16
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@MrsBrightSkies: that sounds awsome!  the people at your wedding are going to recognize your personality in the party and thats what matters.  no one is going to notice if the menu cards don’t match the invitations etc…

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