Post # 1
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Busy bee
Okay so Fiance and I have decided that we want to do a feet washing ceremony during our wedding ceremony. (I KNOW it’s not everyone’s cup of tea, but we love the idea and the symbolism.) Initally, we were going to do a sand ceremony instead of the unity candle.
My question to you lovely bees is, do you think it will be too much to do both the feet washing ceremony and a sand ceremony? Also do you think it will make the ceremony too long?
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
personally i think it would, but i don’t like unity ceremonies to begin with and want a super short ceremony. i think you should do whatever you want, though!
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
Eh, if you really, really want it, I’d say go for it. Some people might be annoyed at the length of the ceremony; but if that’s how they feel about it, what are they doing there anyway?
Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
@MrsDiddles: I would not view a foot-washing ceremony AS a unity ceremony but, rather, a separate component of your ceremony, so I would not find them to be redundant.
Post # 6
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Sugar bee
We’re doing more than one unity ceremony.