(Closed) Is it okay to think people that AREN'T your SO/FI/DH are attractive?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Is it OK to find someone that isn't your SO cute (someone that you personally know)?
    Yes : (120 votes)
    86 %
    No (please explain!) : (5 votes)
    4 %
    Yes, under certain conditions (platonic relationship, etc.) : (15 votes)
    11 %
    Other. Explain in comments below! : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    915 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Of course it is. You aren’t suddenly blinded when you get engaged or married, right?

    Post # 4
    5962 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    I’m married, not blind and not dead, I love Mr. 99 and he’s handsome as hell, but lookin never hurt anyone.

    Post # 6
    1750 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @StefLovesJamie:  I can look all I want. I almost broke my neck looking at a man yesterday! He was running, oh my he looked good!Tongue Out

    Post # 8
    758 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Yes, yes, of course. 🙂

    Post # 9
    2086 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012 - Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards

    Of course.  If you can’t objectively say someone is attractive…well, I have to assume you’re lying to yourself.


    Post # 10
    3668 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    Sure! No harm in a little looksee.

    Post # 11
    14495 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I am not dead, I will always find an attractive man attractive.  Especially a hot Marine in full dress, YUM!

    Post # 12
    3772 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with it as long as you’re not touching and you’re not comparing and thinking to yourself ‘hmmm i wish FI/SO/DH looked more like that’.

    So no there is NOTHING wrong with thinking someone you know IRL is attractive.. it’s not like you can really control that.

    Post # 13
    2893 posts
    Sugar bee

    It’s fine. I’m human, not blind.

    Post # 15
    1691 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Just because you’re on a diet, doesnt mean you can’t look at the menu!

    Post # 16
    6892 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    @lia22:  Best answer!

    I agree with everyone else who has posted. I just don’t have a new funny way of saying it.

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