(Closed) is it poor etiquette to hand deliver invites?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I mail all wedding invites?
    yes, mail them all : (4 votes)
    12 %
    hand delivering some of them is ok. : (29 votes)
    88 %
  • Post # 3
    9142 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

    It used to be considered rude to mail an invitation rather than having it hand delivered (usually by a servant.)  So if anything, you are being extra courteous.

    Post # 4
    2604 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    @Blushingbella:  It is perfectly polite to hand deliver invitations.  Why wouldn’t it be? 

    Post # 5
    10571 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2011

    As long as you’re not handing them out right in front of people you haven’t invited, you’re fine!

    Post # 7
    2551 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I hand delivered quite a few of mine & people loved it! Go for it unless you just really really want to support the post office in their time of need…. 

    Post # 8
    332 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I was going to mail all my invites, including ones to my co-workers who I obviously see regularly. I think it’s fun to get stuff in the mail that isn’t a bill!!!!! But I ended up deciding to hand-deliver my co-worker’s invites because after I completed them, I was a tiny bit worried about the post office ruining them and wanted at least a few to get the recepients in decent shape. I still put stamps on them and everything to make them look special. Maybe that was a bit too much?

    That being said, I think it’s okay to hand deliver invites to people you see often.

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