(Closed) is it REALLY our money?

posted 7 years ago in Money
Post # 3
Member
293 posts
Helper bee

This sounds really unfair. If you are helping him pay for things and not expecting to be paid back, he should do the same for you. You’re definitely justified in feeling uncomfortable! You guys should talk about this and come to a joint decision about how you want to handle your money. If he insists on being paid back, you should stop paying for his things!

Post # 4
Hostess
16215 posts
Honey Beekeeper

Sounds like it’s time to have a talk about the money situation. If he doesn’t compromise and if you’re not comfortable with how much you’re spending, then stop doing it. Simple as that.

There’s a larger issue than money here—what you’re each putting into the relationship. Is there a reason he’s pulling away financially?

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