- 4 years ago
- Wedding: April 2014
So I’ve had a love/hate relationship with my sister in law to be since day one. She’ll pull some really shitty moves with me, then I’ll forgive and she’ll pull something else. I’m not going into details since I’m sure nobody wants to read my novel. Anyways, her hubby has been out of town for work for the past few months and she finally went to go visit him last weekend, and this upcoming weekend he will be home for the weekend. From the very beginning she let me know she wouldn’t be able to stay long at my bridal shower cause her hubby was in town which I was TOTALLY fine with, but now apparently she can’t even stop by. Am I the only one who thinks its odd she can’t even take an hour out of her day to show up considering I’m marrying her only brother AND was nice enough to have her as one of my bridesmaids? When I say nice enough to have her as one of my bridesmaids I use the word “nice” since she had asked me even before me and her brother were engaged and said “you’re going to have me as one of your bridesmaids right?!” so of course I said yes since I love her brother and although I don’t like her much I still did it since we will be family. I guess I just want to feel validated in my feelings that its rude shes not even taking any effort in trying to attend my Bridal shower even for a short amount of time. I guess if I felt she was genuinely busy I wouldn’t care as much, but the fact that I feel its more of an excuse than anything is what pisses me off. How would you all feel?