(Closed) Is it rude to not invite my MOH’s mother?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I don’t think you need to invite her at all. I am inviting my MOHs mom but only because I know her very well…

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I think only if you know her well.  To be honest, you aren’t going to be talking to her, so if it will save face, I say just do it and ignore her. 🙂

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I only invited my MOH’s mom because she’s my mom too! (MOH was my sister)

You definitely do not have to invite your MOH’s mom.

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Hmmm that could be tricky.  Does your Maid/Matron of Honor know how you feel about her mom?  Would it upset her if you didn’t invite her?  It is your wedding, end of story.  You should only invite you want to invite.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I didn’t know you had to invite the MOH’s family members unless if the Maid/Matron of Honor is a relative…?

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Definitely not.  You should invite the people who mean something to you.  If she was a close family friend, maybe, but not if you would rather she’s not there!

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