- 14 years ago
- Wedding: August 2008
to have a back up brides maid?
I have my future SIL who wants to have another baby and needs medical "help" normally to do so, she’s agreed to wait until at least 1-3 months before the wedding to start trying because she’ doens’t want to be pregnant in the wedding – I could care less really, though the one different dress might make me nuts as I’m much to symetrical to handle it ….lol – I would survive of course beacause I love her so much.
But my Mother-In-Law has suggested making my SIL a personal attendant and letting my other friend who will actually be the PA a bridesmaid just in case she’s pregnant
Did you follow all that?? LOL
I’m cool with the idea, but I would feel horrible not having my future SIL in my wedding photos and all that other stuff (she’s supposed to me my maitron of honor BTW) if she’s not pregnant at the time of the wedding….PLUS I don’t want my friend to feel horrible like a "last resort" bridesmaid….
HELP! My engagement party is tongiht and I was planning to ask my friend to be the PA at it, as the rest of the wedding party has already been named.