- 4 years ago
- Wedding: December 2014
Ok, I’m a total type A planner. I have vacations planned out at least a year in advance, if not more. I’ve always been like this. Thank goodness, Boyfriend or Best Friend is exactly the same way so he totally understands.
No proposal yet, but we do have the ring picked out. It’s just a matter of him getting it, and getting down on one knee, or however he wants to do it.
By the way, my Shut It Up Pact has majorly sucked past few days, but we were narrowing down my ring list so it’s with good reason, I guess.
We do know that we want to elope, and do it while on vacation…so I guess a destination elopement? My parents are against it, and want to see their only daughter have a church wedding, but the whole wedding thing just kinda freaks me out. They ADORE my Boyfriend or Best Friend, and think he’s wonderful, although, my mom has made the comment that he’s George Clooney because of his age, and still a bachelor, but oh well…..even George is engaged now 🙂
This will be my second marriage, his first. My first time didn’t have a wedding, or dress, or anything….we just kinda woke up one morning and got married that day. I was also 18 years old!!! This time, I’d like an actual dress. I’ve never tried on wedding dresses before. My son wants to go with me to help pick out a dress so I guess that’s what made me want a dress.
Anyways, before I keep rambling, I guess I’m just worried I’m being stupid for already looking at dresses, and venues at different vacation locations (I’m thinking either Disney or Montana), or do/did y’all do that too? I mean, I know it’s happening. After some heart-to-hearts this weekend, he made sure I knew for certain it IS happening, so something will eventually need to be planned, right?