(Closed) Is it terrible…

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010 - University of Toronto Faculty Club

Hahaha.  Um…been there! 

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME! She is my best friend and Maid/Matron of Honor and she had only been dating him about 2 months.  When she said they broke up…my first thought was “omg! thats 1 less! I hope she doesnt ask to bring someone else now?!”

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Only if it’s terrible that for every last minute RSVP I receive that’s a “yes” I openly cringe.

 

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Haha I did the exact same thing! 🙂 Every spot counts!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I would probably not be happy being your friend.. just sayin’.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

hahah Sorry your friend got dumped but I would have the same thought right now. We are at the max as well so I get excited when I see a decline too (well at first I’m disappointed but then it’s like one more spot!)

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

danadelphia, when did you change your avatar? I almost didn’t recognize you Laughing

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper

I think as long as you didn’t communicate that thought to your friend, you’re probably in the clear 🙂

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Would she still want to bring another guest, a new person she starts to date or a close friend, or would she not mind coming solo?  I just wouldn’t want you to assume she comes alone and then shows up with someone….that would be kind of awkward, lol, and totally throw your guest list numbers off.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

lol. thats awful but awesome.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

It didn’t have to be a bad break-up or anything, it is still seems little self-absorbed to think of your guest list at all in this situation, especially when your invitations won’t even be sent for another 6-7 months (plenty of time for her to get another boyfriend).

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

@bRooklynRocks: It was sometime over the weekend I think (im not a stalker) thats just when I noticed i was SOOO confused!

I totally would feel the same thing! I know its bad but its not like you are saying it to her!

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