(Closed) Is it time to pack up and go? kinda long

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
Member
556 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh my. He sounds horrible. Awful. Please don’t raise your baby with this asshole. Find a way to leave. Now.

Post # 5
Member
291 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Soscared: OMG, YES, IT IS TIME TO LEAVE. Do not stay for money. Leave and start your life. You need to get out of this situation.

Post # 6
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47 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Soscared:  oh Sweetheart. My heart ached reading that. You need to get out asap. Document everything that goes on, particularly the “playfighting” violence. Personally I would go stay with mum now, not later. 

Good luck. 

 

 

Post # 7
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5220 posts
Bee Keeper

You’re 25… plenty of life still ahead so I say move on and next time, when someone says they have kids– realize that when you say ” yes” to the ” will you marry me question” that will make you their step mother. 

Post # 8
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1164 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

when you write an entire page worth of information with not a single redeeming quality, yes it’s time to leave

Post # 10
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1152 posts
Bumble bee

I think you know the answer to your question already. He sounds absolutely awful. Good luck, you and your baby are in my thoughts.

P.S. Document exactly when and how he said that he would lie so he didn’t have to pay you. That might help you in the courts.

Post # 11
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9181 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

take the baby and go! Do you have any of the abuse documented? (Photos of bruises, etc.) That kind of thing will help you in a custody battle. Also all the stuff about lying about his income To cheat the system. Good luck lady! xox

 pS – it’s a site glitch where only the original poster can’t see the paragraphs. 

Post # 12
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2286 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: Central Park

Pack up yourself and th baby and go stay with your mom. Leave him behind. Get a job and support yourself. You don’t need him or his money. If you let him continue to be a part of your life he will own you.

Post # 13
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2856 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Soscared:  You say you are scared to start over from scratch. What do you have now that you are afraid to lose? Do you want to spend the next 50 years with him or are you just going to hope that he doesn’t live too long?

Post # 14
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4311 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

This is a total no brainer.

Post # 15
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1400 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m pretty sure you answered your own question with all the info you provided on him. Go stay with your mom. I understand stressing about money, but life is too short to be this miserable! 

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