(Closed) Is it too late?

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: Is it too late?
    Yes, you will both learn to love the uneven bridal party numbers! : (8 votes)
    62 %
    Heck no! Better late than never! : (5 votes)
    38 %
    Only if he asks one of the girls who is already involved in the ceremony to be a groomsmaid. : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I probably would suggest not asking anyone else.  Uneven numbers isn’t too bad.  Because you’re right, the friend will know they were a plan B, and I’m sure he doesn’t want to offend them.  However, my Fiance has been close with his group of friends since they were nearly toddlers, so he would ask someone else in this situation, and it wouldn’t even be a big deal.  His brother (who is in with the same group of friens) had to do that at around 3 months before and the replacement was so happy to help.  So I guess it also depends on his relationship with the ‘back up plan’.

    Post # 4
    Member
    1315 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I think men are less touchy about these kinds of things. He could maybe ask someone that wasn’t really bothered either way? You know what I mean, someone who would be happy to take part, or equally happy to just turn up and enjoy the day. I’d say sure there’s no harm in asking. How many BMs do you have? Are his Groomsmen brothers/cousins/friends? would one of your BMs partners suit, maybe?

    Obv it’s not a big deal to have odd numbers, I’m just a sucker for symmetry.

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