(Closed) Is it too late to ask BMs?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Is it too late to add BMs?
    Yes - It is too late : (0 votes)
    No - I think it isn't too late : (21 votes)
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  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Why would it be too late you have a year still?

    Post # 4
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    Helper bee

    you have a whole year left. considering some engagements are only for a few months, i think that’s plenty of advance notice!

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I think if you’ve made the girls you’re thinking of asking now that you’d already chosen your bridal party, it could be hurtful to be the “B List” bridesmaids, or an afterthought.  But if you’ve been relatively discreet, I don’t think a year out is too late to be asked to stand up for a friend.

    Post # 5
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    It’s not too late at all. In fact, I think it is better not to pick your wedding party too soon, as relationships and peoples’ lives can change a lot over time.

    Post # 6
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    Not too late at all.

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I think if you’ve made the girls you’re thinking of asking now that you’d already chosen your bridal party, it could be hurtful to be the “B List” bridesmaids, or an afterthought.  But if you’ve been relatively discreet, I don’t think a year out is too late to be asked to stand up for a friend.

    Post # 8
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    With your wedding still so far away I think it’s fine to ask other friends to be in it. I would not mention the fact that you asked the other girls last year, or that you are trying to make the sides even. Just tell them how honored you would be for them to stand beside you as you make this commitment to your man.

    Post # 12
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @pinkworkboots: I think if you explain that to them, they’ll understand.

    Post # 13
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    I just asked a friend of mine, very last minute, and my wedding is in December. So you are not late at all.

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