Is it too much if I go eat at the restaurant with my wedding dress?

posted 5 years ago in Destination Weddings
Post # 3
38 posts
  • Wedding: November 2013

I was thinking about doing the same for our destination wedding.  I am going to bask in my bridal bliss all day long dress and all! 😀


Post # 4
676 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@skschick:  I went to dinner in my wedding dress (at a restaurant… we only had 13 people including us so a “real” reception just seemed dumb). With my leather jacket and flip flops I thought it looked pretty cute lol. My dress was not big and poofy though. If yours is a ballgown, I would change, but if it is not huge with a giant train, go for it. 

Post # 5
355 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

If you don’t mind some attention, do it! I would send you a bottle of wine if I was at the table next to you 🙂

Post # 6
905 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

We once closed down a reception and went immediately to the bar. The bride didn’t change (nor did most of the bridal party) and just kept getting congratulations and free booze until closing. I think it sounds like fun! Go for it!

Post # 7
1423 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

You should totally go out in your dress (no matter what it looks like or how big).  Everyone will be super nice and excited for you — even strangers.

Post # 8
436 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

We are having a wedding dinner (not a reception) at a restaurant for our small intimate wedding and I am wearing my dress all night!  Even to the biker bar later!

Post # 9
6543 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

One of my friends left the end of her reception and she, her new groom, and their friends all went to a local bar/club in their wedding attire. It was hilarious and she continued to dance the night away in her wedding dress. 

Post # 10
621 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

do it! Enjoy the day, and get as much wear out of the dress as possible!

Post # 11
549 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@skschick:  Did you do it? I imagine I will do the same for my small wedding in Oct.

Post # 12
214 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

You should totally go out in your dress! We have a private room in a restaurant for the “reception” so no issue there but I think I will wear my dress when we go out to the bar after too! You only get to wear it once…

Post # 13
5966 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

I think it depends on how much you enjoy attention.  If you’ll enjoy the “congratulations”, gawking, etc all day, then go for it!

If you’d rather have a private dinner, then change.  You can even change into something more subtly bridal like a white cocktail dress if you like.

Post # 13
1 posts
  • Wedding: August 2016

Sorry, I know this post is way old but I found it by doing a search asking about wearing my wedding dress to a Brazilian Steakhouse.  I’m concerned that I will get my dress stained up.  It seems most logical to bring a sheet to wear as a bib but that will look rediculous!!!! LOL!  I just don’t see how I can expect to leave unscathed with all that cutting and meat flopping around : (

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