(Closed) Is it unreasonable for me to want see the FG dresses before the wedding??

posted 11 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 19
Member
327 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2020 - Holy Family Catholic Church, reception: National Infantry Museum

aw… I think it’s cute.  I’m not sure of the feel you are going for, but it’s still a cute dress.  I can see how you would be frustrated though!

Post # 20
Member
276 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

It’s not so bad!  Maybe there are ways you can accessorize it (adding a sash, etc.) to turn it more into what you were hoping for.

Post # 21
Member
2007 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I think it’s a cute dress!  I vote for letting the matter go. 

Post # 22
Member
1023 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think its a cute dress. It’s so weird that she didn’t want to show you the dress though. Obviously she knows that she’s in a bit of hot water (by choice). So disrespectful, but at least in the end the FGs will not be wearing some crazy monstrosity of a dress (I was imagining the worst kinds of dresses they could pick as I read your post).

Post # 23
Member
545 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I am so pissed off for you that she went behind your back and bought the dresses without checking with you first.  Was it like a once a life time opportunity that she just HAD to buy it right then when she did without her asking for your opinion or she’ll miss out on the dresses??  I totally understand what you mean, the dress itself is not the issue, but it’s how she just went behind your back.  I am SO MAD (lol) because I am going through a smiliar thing with my brother’s sister with my mother’s mother of the bride dress.  (long story.) UGH!!! 

Some people’s got some nerves!!

I am glad that at least the dresses she picked were acceptable to you, though. Thank goodness.  Let this one go because you got more things to worry about, but keep an eye on her to make sure she won’t cause anymore trouble!! lol 😛

The topic ‘Is it unreasonable for me to want see the FG dresses before the wedding??’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors